Focus on interests, not positions.

Be expressive of your interests and points of view.

Share all relevant information.

Explain the reasons behind you statements, questions, and actions.

Be specific—use examples.

Make statements then invite questions.

Be open to listening to other view points.

Be considerate of other opinions and interests.

Discuss difficult issues when necessary.

Disagree openly and respectfully with any member of the group.

Listen to understand.

Keep the discussions focused.

Make effort to find common interests.

Agree on what important words mean.

Make decisions by consensus.